You Are Your Dream

Jocelyn Parkhurst, Ph.D. -- President and Executive Director of Changing Tides

Welcome to the moment where you take charge of your life and change the tide towards achieving your dreams.  It is never too late to further your education and have the life you want.

When I was 29 years old, I found myself with three small children, in an abusive marriage, and stuck in jobs that had no advancement potential as I had never finished high school, only having earned a GED.  Looking at my newborn daughter, I knew I had to do something to change my situation.  Looking around at the world, I realized that women had not achieved the equality in the United States that many people believed, and certainly not in most other countries. Yet, I had no idea how to change things.  I decided to go back to school to study political science in order to help myself, my daughter, and women in the US and around the world.

As I progressed through my studies, I found that some teachers and professors were more helpful than others in facilitating my academic efforts. Especially in graduate school, being older, a mom, and a large woman who did not fit the mold of the young white male graduate student, I often found myself alone, working to navigate a system that I did not understand.

Through my experiences and the experiences I heard from others, I realized that finding, understanding, and completing academic degrees, whatever the level, was not the same for adults and at risk groups as it was for traditional students.  Single parents, older students, first generation college students, and those from marginalized groups in the US often had needs different from traditional students not usually understood by administration and faculty.

My desire to help women transformed into helping those groups I saw as being at risk of living in poverty.  Changing the tides of apathy and ignorance towards populations of people in the US and globally who do not have access to the power levels of the economy and political world can only be done by advocating access to higher education for more people in ways that does not mean decades of loan repayment or useless degrees.

In these pages you will find information, tools, experiences and hope that will help you achieve your dreams.  Don’t get me wrong. I am not going to give you anything.  You will earn for yourself every inch of your education.  I only offer insight, information, opportunities and experiences from those who have been there.

In addition to the webinars on the website, I also conduct face to face workshops on the topics listed, as well as several others. The workshops are usually two to four hours long, but can be condensed or combined to fit your group or organization’s needs. I conduct the workshops at no charge, but all travel and supply costs must be picked up by the group or organization setting up the workshop. Please contact me at my phone or email for more information or to set up a workshop.

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First Year College Shorts #2: Setting Goals

Sometimes, the long term goals we make can seem so overwhelming that we never even get started on them. When something seems to big, break it down into smaller pieces. The smaller pieces are much more manageable, and before you know it, you’re there! All the little steps become a great leap forward!

Series College First Year Hints Shorts #2: Setting Goals

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Learning From Peers

I was wandering around the web and found this project done by USA Today with the support of Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and Kodak. It takes the experiences of 5 “non-traditional” students, puts it on camcorder video, and then allows us to share in their struggles.

What I see in each of their struggles is what I experienced and what I see my students experience every day. We have a vast majority of “non-traditional” students as students in colleges and universities, but most of these institutions fail to see the changing demographics of their students. Most institutions still harbor the “professor lectures in the classroom and the student learns” structure, along with the belief that students only have college in their lives, nothing more.

Please enjoy these stories. Click on each of the pictures in the link to start their video. I would love to hear your stories too! Post a response here or a video back at me on my YouTube site!

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    Colege First Year Shorts #1 Get Motivated

    Motivation helps us keep going when we hit those moments in our academic life when we want to give up. Understanding why we are going to school, what our purpose is for getting an education, and what we see as the outcome helps us stay focused. Creating visual reminders helps to motivate us to keep moving forward.

    Series: College First Year Hints Shorts #1 Get Motivated

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    Money Money Money

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    Funding your education is no easy task. We hear every day how education is accessible to everyone. Yet, this accessibility comes with a price tag if you are not already wealthy. For a four year degree, it will cost you anywhere from $9000 to $35,000 a YEAR. After 12 years of college to get my Ph.D., I racked up a debt that would by a house. I kept making a joke that I should get my brain insured.

    Whether you are seeking a professional certificate, associate’s degree, bachelors or beyond, it is likely going to mean student loans. Don’t be afraid of student loans, but do know what they mean for you. You do have to pay them back, and they do accrue interest.

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    Most states and colleges/universities also offer financial aid in the form of grants (money you don’t have to pay back that come from public or school funds), scholarships (money that is gifted to you and you do not have to pay back), and student loans. Some of these are from private organizations and some are from public monies. All of them come with strings attached.

    I will be adding more information on the various ways to fund your education, including places where you can apply for scholarships.

    Don’t let the cost of your education hold you back! I would never trade my education for the money it cost me! Your education will open doors that you would never even see without it!

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    Are you ready for college?

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    Questioning whether you have the skills necessary for college is one of the largest hang ups for people wanting to achieve their dreams. While it is important to know where you are with your skills and what you need to be successful, you can start towards your goal of a higher education right now!

    If you haven’t achieved your high school diploma or GED, this is your first step. You will want to focus first on your General Education Degree (GED) as this is necessary to get into college courses (or a high school diploma, but if you are out of high school, the GED is what you want). Check out the GED links at the bottom of this post for more information on what it is and where to go.

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    At most ground colleges, you need to take a skills placement test (math and English). Some online colleges also have skills placement tests, but many do not. Instead, these programs work to develop the skills you need with your first set of courses. Usually, there are also free workshops for students to help in developing writing, time management, and other important academic skills.

    Long story short, don’t wait to start college after you get the skills you need (except your GED of course). Get started, and get the help you need to be successful.

    I will be posting some additional information on the basic skills you will want to develop. I will also post information on the errors I see the most in new student work. Both of these will help you right off the bat as you move forward towards your goals!

     

    GED Links

    The information provided below are a few links I found that provide free GED practice testing and information on where to go for GED education and testing. GED education should be free to students at local community colleges or reputable colleges online. The test itself will cost $15 per test, and there are five separate tests/subject areas.

    • American Council on Education — “GED Testing Service, a program of the American Council on Education, develops, delivers and safeguards the GED Tests. Start here for accurate and reliable information about the GED testing program.”
    • Background Information on the GED — This information from Wikipedia provides a general background of where the exam came from, what it consists of, and the methods of taking the exam. While Wikipedia is not considered an academic source, it is good for basic knowledge information.
    • Test Prep Practice — This site provides information and free practice tests for the GED exam. This is one of the few GED practice sites that is truly free and a service to students.
    • OnLine Training Institute — This site provides information on the more than 3,000 testing centers around the world. You can click on the US link for information by state, or look for other testing centers internationally.
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